Art of Seduction -- what a tantalizing topic. The mere thought of seducing a woman, or better yet being seduced by a woman, makes my mouth water. The word alone reminds me of sensual indulgence, exciting pleasures and forbidden delights.
- Choose the Right Target
- Study your prey thoroughly. The right targets are those for whom you can fill a void. The perfect target allows for the perfect chase.
- Create a False Sense of Security - Approach Indirectly
- The seduction should begin at an angle so that the target only gradually becomes aware of you. Haunt the periphery of your target's life.
- Send Mixed Signals
- A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates as it confuses.
- Appear to Be an Object of Desire
- Make your targets hungry to possess you. It will become a point of vanity for them to be the preferred object of your attention.
- Create a Need - Stir Anxiety and Discontent
- A perfectly satisfied person cannot be seduced.
- Master the Art of Insinuation
- Create a sublanguage - bold statements followed by retraction and apology, banal talk combined with alluring glances. make everything suggestive.
- Enter Their Spirit
- Play by your targets' rules. In doing so you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.
- Create Temptation
- Lure the target by creating a glimpse of the pleasures to come.
- Keep Them in Suspense
- The moment people feel they know what to expect from you, you spell on them is broken. Give the target a thrill with a sudden change of direction.
- Use the Power of Words to Sow Confusion
- The trick to making people listen is to say what they want to hear. Flatter them.
- Pay Attention to Detail
- Lofty words of love and grand gestures can be suspicious. The subtle gestures and the offhand things you do are often more charming.
- Poeticize
- Your Presence - Intrigue your target by altering an exciting presence with a cool distance, exuberant moments followed by calculated absences.
- Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability
- Too much maneuvering on your part may raise suspicion. The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger.
- Confuse Desire and Reality
- Create the Perfect Illusion - Aim at secret wishes that have been thwarted or repressed, stirring up uncontrollable emotions, clouding a victim's powers of reason.
- Isolate the Target
- Take your targets away from their normal milieu, friends, family, home. With no outside support, an isolated person is easily led astray.
- Prove Yourself
- One well-timed action that shows how far you are willing to go to win your target over will dispel doubts.
- Effect a Regression
- People who have experienced a certain kind of pleasure in the past will try to repeat or relive it.
- Stir Up the Transgressive and Taboo
- People yearn to explore their dark side. Take your targets further than they imagine - the shared feeling of guilt and complicity will create a powerful bond.
- Use Spiritual Lures
- Everyone has doubts and insecurities about their physical presence. Lure them out of their insecurities by making them focus on something sublime and spiritual.
- Mix Pleasure with Pain
- The greatest mistake in seduction is being too nice.
- Give Them Space to Fall
- The Pursuer is Pursued - Hint that you are growing bored. Seem interested in someone else. Create the illusion that the seducer is being seduced.
- Use Physical Lures
- Targets with active minds are dangerous. Put their minds gently to rest and waken their dormant senses by combining a non-defensive attitude with a charged sexual pleasure.
- Master the Art of the Bold Move
- Don't give the target time to consider the consequences. One person must go on the offensive, and it is you.
- Beware the After-effects
- Never let the other person take you for granted. Use absence, create pain and conflict, to keep the seduced on tenterhooks.
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